Could you please help me with this debate?

I agree with you Mia. Theres plenty of men with different tastes. In Jay-Z videos and such theirs thicker women with more curves so their not anarecsic thin. And so I agree that its other women we try to mold because we look up to their body and how much we want to b like them hoping we'll get some sort of same recognition or something (which is rarely the case).