What does he mean.............?

No, I don't think you can love each other the same way that you used to. That doesn't mean you can't love each other as much or more, just not the same. Early relationship love is much different than the love two people develop over time. There are many different ways people in relationship love each other. Often people love each other but don't necessarily like each other. In that case a couple should work on building friendship and appreciation for one another. Also remember that when you start putting conditions on it, it is not unconditional love. All you can do is make sure you are doing your part to respect and love him the way he wants to be loved and he will have to do the rest, and you cant change that or do it for him. That is on him to decide if he is willing or not to open up and love you unconditionally, and for you to decide if what he gives you is worth the dedication.